Cayni
Naming Traditions
Family names
When you marry the Family name that's more important is kept by all spouses. If there is equal import than the names get merged, and if there is no import then you're free to choose what you like.
Ideals
Gender Ideals
There isn't any distinction by gender in Kreca society.
Relationship Ideals
Most marriage type relationships have three members. The sex of those members don't matter, though its common to have at least one of each sex to keep the family going. All three spouses count as the parents of the children and take care of them as such. Those who can't have children will often be part of a relationship where the other two can.