How about a Questionnaire pt. 3

Part 5: Relationships With Others
53. In general, how do you treat others (politely, rudely, by keeping them at a distance,etc.)? Does your treatment of them change depending on how well you know them, and if so, how? I always try to be polite but I can be rude sometimes. I never had the best social interaction teachings.
54. Who is the most important person in your life, and why? Xander. Even though I haven't seen her in years I feel like we still have a strong connection to each other and we will see each other once again.
55. Who is the person you respect the most, and why? My dad. He has raised thousands of children some not even his and has always made time for me.
56. Who are your friends? Do you have a best friend? Describe these people. I really only have Torunn and Xander. I feel a bit alienated by the rest of the crew...but that might be fine. Torunn is a gentle soul and Xander...uhh...Xander is a wild card.
57. Do you have a spouse or significant other? If so, describe this person. I will go into Xander more here. Xander is mute so sometimes it's hard to tell what is on her mind. She is a very caring soul but sometimes she acts a bit...uhh...irrational.
58. Have you ever been in love? If so, describe what happened. I still am in love with Xander. We've known each other for many years as she trained with my clan after she had no where to go. I will find her one day when I have more personal time.
59. What do you look for in a potential lover? Some one who is caring and firm and knows when to put their foot down.
60. How close are you to your family? With my mom and dad extremely. With my siblings, some what. Our culture treated the men of our village more like soldiers so I never really got to spend much time with them if we weren't training.
61. Have you started your own family? If so, describe them. If not, do you want to? Why or why not? I have not and I am unsure if I want to. It is more responsibility that I'm not sure if I'm ready for.
62. Who would you turn to if you were in desperate need of help? In order...My dad, Vatna, Lorelei, Lio, Nichol, and the Captain if I am desperate enough to pull her from her busy work.
63. Do you trust anyone to protect you? Who, and why? My dad. He has protected me over himself quite a few times.
64. If you died or went missing, who would miss you? I am not sure. I can only list people I would hope would miss me.
65. Who is the person you despise the most, and why? I don't despise anyone who is alive.
66. Do you tend to argue with people, or avoid conflict? I try not to argue but I can be very argumentative
67. Do you tend to take on leadership roles in social situations? Depends on who I am with.
68. Do you like interacting with large groups of people? Why or why not? No. I am more of a flight then fight so when too large of a group happens I prefer to just go sit in the corner.
69. Do you care what others think of you? Yes. Extremely so.